Someone is screaming at you and your blood pressure spikes.
You bite your tongue, not wanting to start a fight.
He continues, thinking that more nagging would get you to understand.
You desperately want the person to stop. Eventually, it stops.
The hardest part, is when the same scenario comes back again.
I wonder if the scenario is recurring because of our righteous belief that we are right and they are wrong.
We wish people to act differently. And they wish the same. Round and round, the situation happens again.
And when we believe that, we skip the need to take responsibility for our own reality. We outsource our agency to be creative and shape our reality insisting on others to change.
Claiming back your agency and repeating issues are both painful.
Your choice.
