We are quick to solve, dismiss and point out how the logic is flawed.
Only to find that people repeat themselves again and again. And it gets irritating.
It is perhaps faster to, first, understand in a way where people felt so.
We are not submitting to their views, values, and proposed action.
And when we feel understood, we stop needing to repeat ourselves.
Both parties are able to be present with full creativity capacity.
A fertile ground for resolutions.