Instead of telling others how they “should” be doing things (which sounds like guilt), what if they “could” do it because it’s a better way? Or because it’s worth it?
I used to think that people have to act in a certain way. I was caught unhappy, most times. So, I accepted people should act the way they want to act.
And if I want others to act in a different way, then it’s my responsibility to help them see. Maybe perhaps we could (not should) do it this way instead. What do you think?