If your hair is on fire (and you’re in survival)
If you are only interested to be loved, instead of loving
If you are looking for someone that’s funny, smart and wealthy (perfection)
If you’re looking for a permanent solution to your emotional, financial and sexual problems
If you see relationships as transitions
If you haven’t accepted your flaws (and hence can’t share them)
If you don’t want to be vulnerable and unwilling to be in uncertainty
If you can’t enjoy being alone (and you’re looking for an escape)
Maybe just maybe, you haven’t loved yourself.
And that’s where love begins.