That would be you.

Last week, I went to a documentary film screening of Dieter Rams, a famous product designer. It was followed by a panel discussion with difficult questions that touch the nerves of the audience.

How do you balance minimalism and capitalism? How do you persuade the client to embrace minimalism? How do you implement these design philosophy in the real world?

There was no straight easy answer from the people on stage.

The ones who should be seeing this documentary were not here.

Social media is so addictive. Lawmakers are not acting fast enough. The takeaway packaging is still plastic.

We broke into smaller groups and continued the discussion over drinks.

I threw around some ideas. Should we delete our apps? Should we start a petition? Can we buy your friend a Spork?

The more ideas I gave, the more problems I received.  My roommate accepted being slapped in the face by her boyfriend. The small town people in India don’t watch enough TED videos. Coconuts are wrapped in plastic film.   

Well, perhaps you don’t really want to solve these problems. Perhaps we just want to talk about them.

Because perhaps the answer starts with you. Not someone else, you. You need to put yourself on the hook. Each one of us needs to.

Do you really care enough about the problems to sacrifice your money, your wit and your convenience to claim those problems and take ownership of them? 

Because the alternative is easy. It is to hide. It is to blow up these problems, so big that it doesn’t involve us. It is to blame other people. It is to find more fault than solutions.

It is perhaps harder, and more generous when we change ourselves before telling the world how they should act. To change one person then change the world. And because real change happens only when you decide to take the first step. Not them, it’s you.

Consider when we noticed ourselves faulting the world, perhaps it is better for everyone if we use that momentum and be a part of the solution.

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The photo was taken at Ban Heng Long Trading, a local wood shop where I go to replace the door of the Little Free Libary.

“It is not a failure if there are lessons to be learnt from it.”
– Daniel Lim

Daniel Lim is an entrepreneur and business coach.

His coaching and training practice aims to help people to redefine success, build businesses and do work which is aligned with their values and purpose.

Daniel’s former design studio, Studio MDS work with clients such as Capella Hotels, Singapore Flyer and National Heritage Board.

In 2017, he designed and ran a retreat called #howtohuman for DesignSingapore Council.

In this conversation, we spoke about

  • The story of Daniel’s burnout
  • Toxic behaviour in the workplace
  • Characteristics of people that who should not be an entrepreneur
  • and much more!

If you’ve only got 2 minutes, here’s a short video on (How to Let Your Passion Make Money for You):

 

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QUESTION(S) OF THE DAY: What was your favourite quote or lesson from this episode? Please let me know in the comments.

Show Notes

How does Daniel answer the question of “What do you do?” [00:53]
Daniel Lim on his childhood growing up [11:20]
Daniel Lim on his first entrepreneur journey [32:33]
Daniel Lim shares characteristics of bad clients [53:27]
How did Magic Mushroom evolve into StudioMDS? [01:04:19]
What is Daniel’s favourite failure that planted a seed for later success? [01:10:24]
What are the signs of a burnout? [01:23:44]
Daniel Lim shares the most common misconception of psychotherapy [01:27:34]
How does Daniel’s define the currencies of life? [01:41:37]
How does Daniel define happiness? [01:45:12]
Daniel Lim on following your passion [01:51:51]
What are lessons that need to be unlearnt for one to be happy [01:57:04]
How does Daniel Lim think about designing a retreat for Design Council Singapore? [02:00:19]
What did Daniel after running the retreat? [02:09:50]
What are the mental blocks creative faces when he transits to being an entrepreneur? [02:12:49]
What are the characteristics of people who should not be entrepreneurs? [02:17:46]

Links Mentioned

Connect with Daniel Lim:
Website | Instagram | Litolabs

Conversation with God by Neale Donald Walsch
The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
Working with Shenpa (Getting Hooked) in Meditation by Pema Chodron
Kindle Paperwhite (Carousell seller)
Akina Nakamori

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And if you have any experience with anything we talked about, I’d love for you to open up in the comments.

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Special thanks to Danny for the heartfelt conversation. Until next time!

 

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“You can’t see good writing, you can only see what’s behind it.” – Adrian Tan

Adrian Tan is the author of The Teenage Textbook and The Teenage Workbook which were both national bestsellers. The two books sold over 50,000 copies. The books were made into a film – The Teenage Textbook Movie, which topped the box office in Singapore for four weeks. In 2015, The Teenage Textbook was selected by The Business Times as one of the Top 10 English Singapore books from 1965–2015.

Adrian is currently a lawyer with Morgan Lewis in Singapore and specialises in intellectual property and information technology law. On his off-duty days, Adrian also judges on the International Emmy Award-nominated debate TV show – The Arena.

In this conversation, we spoke about:

  • Argument vs. persuasion, and how he has used the latter in his law practice
  • The writing process for The Teenage Textbook
  • Why he chose law as his career and much much more

It was a really fun and wide-ranging conversation. Adrian is such an insightful and a hilarious guy.

If you’ve only got 2 minutes, here’s a short video on (How Did Donald Trump Get Away with Half-Truths?)

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Show Notes
Adrian Tan shares stories from childhood [1:05]
Adrian Tan on how he started writing [21:01]
Adrian recalls his enrolment to a Chinese School (Hwa Chong Institution) [24:55]
Adrian Tan shares advice on debating [32:14]
Adrian Tan on writing better [41:07]
Adrian Tan on his first paid writing gig [44:58]
Adrian Tan describes his writing style [51:13]
The writing process for The Teenage Textbook [54:31]
Adrian Tan on writer fees [56:39]
Adrian Tan on economics of writing [57:53]
Adrian Tan on why he chose to do law [01:02:46]
Adrian shares view on Singlish [01:07:45]
Adrian on his motivation to be a lawyer [01:14:54]
Adrian Tan on the Millennial Generation [01:20:09]
Adrian Tan on when to see a lawyer [01:28:42]
The overlaps between law and creative writing [01:35:34]
Adrian on the balance of law and creative work [01:36:18]
Adrian Tan on the intellectuals in Singapore [01:40:35]
Adrian Tan on Singapore’s over governance [01:44:28]
Links Mentioned
Animal Farm by George Orwell
6 Questions/6 Rules by George Orwell
Brave New World by Aldous Huxley
The Pupil (TV Show)
Brave New Animal Farm – An SWF 2013 Lecture by Adrian Tan & Gwee Li Sui
The Teenage Textbook by Adrian Tan

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Special thanks to Adrian. Until next time!

Loh Lik Peng is the owner and director of Unlisted Collection.

His career began as a litigator during the Asian Financial Crisis in 1997. He mainly dealt with company bankruptcy.

His transition to hospitality occurred in 2000 when he bought a property, now known as Hotel 1929, on a bargain and treated it as a passion project.

Today, he owns several boutique hotels and restaurants in Singapore, London, Shanghai and Sydney. Some of these include (but not limited to) New Majestic Hotel, Wanderlust Hotel,  Burnt Ends and Pollen. He also chairs the Shatec Institute and Singapore Hotel Association and holds directorships at the National Volunteer and Philanthropy Centre, Asian Civilisations Museum and the Peranakan Museum.

We dived into topics including:
– The economics of the hospitality business
– Why Loh Lik Peng only opens restaurants with a co-chef owner
– Hiring practices in the competitive hospitality industry
– Old barbers’ chairs and lots more

If you’ve only got 2 minutes, here’s a short video on (Being a Good Chef is Not Enough to Get You That Dream Restaurant)

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Show Notes

Loh Lik Peng shares stories from his childhood [2:09]
The decision to study law [7:21]
Loh Lik Peng on the birth of Hotel 1929 [11:32]
Loh Lik Peng on why he sold Hotel 1929 [16:51]
Loh Lik Peng on the economics of running a hotel business [20:04]
Loh Lik Peng on why he only opens restaurant with a co-chef owner [20:51]
Loh Lik Peng shares the story of his first restaurant, Ember [22:54]
Why did Loh Lik Peng start investing in more restaurant? [25:17]
What does Loh Lik Peng look for in a co-owner? [28:03]
Loh Lik Peng shares advice on people management [32:11]
Advice on hiring in the competitive F&B industry [34:18]
Loh Lik Peng shares lesson from his biggest failures [39:00]
Loh Lik Peng on time management [47:05]
Loh Lik Peng on his fascination for old barbers’ chair? [48:40]
What motivates Loh Lik Peng to continue running the business? [52:06]

Links Mentioned

Connect with Loh Lik Peng:
Website | Instagram

Books by Nadine Gordimer
Restaurant Ember 
Pollen Restaurant

Dharni Ng

Dharni Ng (@dharniofficial) started beatboxing at age 15.

He studied at Temasek Polytechnic. In 2011, he won Emperor of the The Mic in Canada. He is the first person in history to win The Grand Beatbox Battle Championship twice in a row. He has also has opened for artistes like Black Eyed Peas, Kanye West, Lady Gaga and performed during Mariah Carey’s concert.

If you’ve only got 5 minutes, here’s a short video on (Why a Beatboxer can Also BE a Good Businessman?)

And here is the video of the (Final round (Dharni vs TWO.H) at Grand Beatboxing Battle 2014)

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Show Notes

Dharni shares his lesson on winning the Grand Beatbox Battle [01:49]
The difference between working hard and working smart [5:39]
A day in the life of a beatboxer [16:27]
Dharni shares advice on working with music agents [18:44]
Dharni shares his philosophy on self expression [23:26]
Dharni speaks about his coming to adulthood [24:33]
Dharni moved to Poland and lived on his own [32:30]
Dharni shares lesson from living independently overseas [37:24]
How does one become self aware and avoid the Ego trap? [46:38]
Dharni on his forage into tech startup [51:54]
How Dharni discover the root cause of his talent [53:59]
Dharni explains how he gives back to the Beatbox community [55:35]
What is missing from Singapore’s music scene? [57:16]
Dharni shares his perspective on Singapore’s media [01:01:25]
Dharni shares his first travelling experience [01:06:43]
Why did Dharni make Poland his second home? [01:09:20]

Links Mentioned

Connect with Dharni Ng:
Facebook | YouTube | Instagram | Twitter

Dharni @ Grand Beatbox Battle 2013 | Showcase Grand Final
Reeps One interview on his art exhibition
Dharni’s Virtual Video (Polish language = Beatbox)
Dj Rattle
DJ inquisitive
Dharni’s 2nd Virtual Video (Learn To Beatbox In 6 Languages)
Foodboxer @instagram
Kwaver iOS App

Thanks for listening!

Have some feedback you’d like to share? Leave a note in the comment section below!

Also, please leave an honest review for Misfits Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and greatly appreciated! They do matter in the rankings of the show, and I read each and everyone of them.

Until next time!

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Daniel Ong is a serial entrepreneur and co-founder of Twelve Cupcakes, with more than 40 stores around the region. He was a well-loved radio deejay from Singapore’s MediaCorp Radio 987FM and won the most popular radio personality awards in 2006, 2007 and 2008.

Daniel also managed the radio station for 15 months. In 2010, he announced that he was leaving the radio industry at large. In 2011, Twelve Cupcakes was born and it has grown to more than 40 stores today.

If you’ve only got 2 minutes, here’s a short video on (The One Technique Daniel Ong Practices Daily to Success)

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Show Notes

Daniel’s childhood, first step into business and the source of his hunger
Daniel’s education and his start in Radio
Daniel on his unwavering positivity
Daniel on how he became the top DJ
Daniel’s views on Singlish
Daniel on becoming the manager of the radio station
Daniel gives advice on how to manage people with egos
Daniel shares insight on celebrities he met along the way
Daniel’s views on money and wealth
Daniel’s lesson from his biggest failure
Behind Twelve Cupcakes’ success
Daniel Ong shares his experience on bringing Twelve Cupcake overseas
Daniel shares his future business ideas
Daniel on the contraversies from his perspective
Daniel advice for staff management
Daniel’s dog got kidnapped
Daniel on time management

Links Mentioned

Connect with Daniel Ong:
Website | Twitter | Instagram

Outliers by Malcom Gladwell
Daniel’s Ong letter to his neighbour
Pike Place Fish Market
Thanks for Listening!

Have some feedback you’d like to share? Leave a note in the comment section below!

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Also, please leave an honest review for Misfits Podcast on iTunes. Ratings and reviews are extremely helpful and greatly appreciated! They do matter in the rankings of the show, and I read each and every one of them.

Until next time!

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Rafie Chua is the founder and creator behind custom furniture studio, Plane and Bevel. In a fast paced consumerism society that demands for cheap and the good, he left banking and dived into this sunset industry of woodworking. He has since created a sustainable business.

Rafie’s creation can found in restaurant, cafes such as Odette, Merely Ice Cream and Choice Cuts. He has most recently been featured on Michelin Guide Singapore. In the interview, we spoke about:

  • The woodworking scene in Singapore
  • Machinery and wood working technique
  • Lessons learnt from traveling around the globe
  • Difference that separate a hobbyist and professional
  • Schools of thoughts in woodworking

If it wasn’t for him, I wouldn’t be able to built the Little Free Library (thank you!).

If you have only got 2 mins to spare, here’s a short snippet on (Why he Choose to Leave his Banking Job to be a Wood Worker).

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Show Notes

Rafie helped to build the Little Free Library [03:10]
Carpenter vs Wood Worker [06:20]
Rafie’s journey before Plane and Bevel [09:16]
Friends’ and parents’ reaction toward Rafie’s career switch [13:41]
What made Rafie quit his white collar job [16:34]
How did Rafie finance Plane and Bevel [17:43]
Advice when working with a partner [21:10]
What would Rafie like to see in young carpenters [25:25]
Rafie’s proudest project [27:23]
Plane and Bevel furniture design process [28:53]
Why Rafie chose to go to Japan to learn woodworking [34:33]
Advice for young wood workers in Singapore [39:03]
Rafie’s favourite tools [43:33]
Mindset of a hobbyist and a profession [45:42]
The underlying passion of woodworking [49:09]
Why is woodworking culture missing in Singapore? [52:59]
Woodworker in the region [55:28]
Rafie’s solo traveling experiences [58:25]
What did Rafie learn from travelling? [1:01:14]

Links

Connect with Rafie:
If I Were a Carpenter (Bangkok, Thailand)
Into the Wild by John Krakauer